As a decades long solo traveler and a professional travel advisor, I’ve seen countless women on the verge of their first solo journey—filled with anticipation, but also with questions about the experience. Perhaps you feel the same way. If so, you’ve landed in the right spot. I’ve gathered some of the most common questions I hear from women preparing to take that first courageous step.
Dive in, and you just might find the answers you’ve been looking for.
Q: What destinations are safest for a solo female traveler?
The options are vast. If you’re drawn to the history and culture of Europe, consider starting in London. This dynamic city is easily navigable with its safe and efficient public transportation, and with no language barrier to contend with, you can fully immerse yourself in its world-renowned museums and vibrant theater scene.
For a more tranquil, soul-searching escape, Bali has long been a haven for solo travelers. Its lush jungles and stunning coastlines create a backdrop of serenity. It’s a destination where you’ll find a strong community of like-minded women, making it easy to connect and share your journey.
Q: How can I be safe while traveling?
While you can’t eliminate all risk, you can absolutely travel more safely. Two of my most essential tips are to choose your accommodation wisely and to register your trip.
First, opt for a hotel over an Airbnb. Hotels provide a layer of security you won’t find elsewhere, with dedicated staff and controlled access that monitors who comes and goes. Second, sign up for the U.S. Department of State’s free STEP program. By registering your itinerary, you give the local U.S. embassy a direct way to contact you and provide assistance in the event of an emergency, from natural disasters to civil unrest.
Q: How can I meet people when I travel solo?
Solo travel is wonderfully freeing, but there will be moments when you crave connection. Instead of waiting for a chance encounter, proactively build in opportunities to meet people.
I recommend booking a few guided day tours or activities that match your interests. Whether it’s a food tour through a bustling market, a hands-on cooking class, or an architectural walking tour, these small-group activities are designed to foster conversation and connection. You’re guaranteed to be with other travelers who are just as excited to explore as you are.
Q: How do I deal with dining alone?
Dining solo can feel uncomfortable in the U.S., but it’s a completely normal, even common, practice in many other countries. A few simple strategies can make it a breeze.
First, make a reservation so the restaurant can prepare a comfortable table for one. Bring a book or podcast, but don’t be afraid to put it away. By embracing the moment, you open yourself up to the possibility of conversation. People are often curious about solo travelers, and dining alone can be one of the best ways to connect with locals or other travelers.
Q: What if I get lost, get hurt, or something goes wrong?
Take a deep breath and trust yourself. While you can’t control every twist and turn, remember that the skills you use to troubleshoot problems at home don’t disappear the moment you cross a border. Travel is an exercise in resilience.
People around the world are far more eager to help than you might think, and many speak at least a little English. Solo travel will test you, but it will also reveal a confidence and resourcefulness you might not have known you had. You’ve got this.
Ready for your solo adventure? Let’s work together. You can learn more about my custom travel design services for solo travelers or browse my upcoming Luxe Solo Escapes Escorted Journeys.
